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A Show That Stood the Test of Time
If you haven’t heard of The Golden Girls, you might be living under a rock. The show, which aired from 1985 to 1992, became a global sensation.
Initially expected to last only one season, it became a cultural icon. Over 30 years later, fans still celebrate its legacy.
Behind the Scenes with a Writer
Newsner recently interviewed Stan Zimmerman, a staff writer from Season 1. He shared fascinating behind-the-scenes stories about the beloved show.
Estelle Getty’s Kindness Off-Screen
No one can forget Estelle Getty as Sophia Petrillo. While fans loved her sharp one-liners, Zimmerman remembers her warmth.
He recalled their first meeting: “I was excited when she approached me and my writing partner, Jim. She was so tiny! She pulled us aside and whispered, ‘Your secret’s safe with me.’” At first, Zimmerman thought she meant their Jewish heritage, but she was actually referring to their sexuality. Getty, having worked closely with LGBTQ+ individuals in Torch Song Trilogy, was supportive.
A Time of Secrecy
In 1985, being openly gay in Hollywood wasn’t easy. Zimmerman’s management advised him to keep his identity a secret. Getty, however, promised to keep his confidence. “She was very sweet and understanding,” he said.
Estelle’s Motherly Side
On screen, Getty delivered zingers. Off screen, she had a nurturing spirit. Zimmerman shared, “Even years later, we talked on the phone. She always asked about my work and dating life. She never hesitated to give advice.”
The Youngest Golden Girl?
Despite playing the oldest character, Getty was actually younger than Bea Arthur and Betty White. The makeup team had to age her with cosmetics.
Zimmerman recalled a funny moment: “Between seasons, she got a facelift. The makeup team was like, ‘Estelle, why do you look younger?’ She was just thrilled to be in Hollywood.”
A Silent Struggle
Sadly, Getty later faced early-onset dementia. The anxiety of performing in front of a live audience made remembering lines difficult.
Zimmerman recalled, “Friday night tapings were tough for her. But the other women protected her, ensuring she felt supported.”

The Truth About Her Therapy Sessions
Getty confided in Zimmerman about attending therapy multiple times a week. Many on set assumed she was out partying. “The producers even called her managers, insisting they keep her on top of her lines,” he revealed.
Tricks to Help Her Remember
As her condition worsened, the team found creative ways to help her. “If you see her eating raisins on screen, we wrote lines on her hand. Sometimes, we taped them to furniture,” Zimmerman admitted.
Betty White’s True Intentions
Zimmerman’s first impression of Betty White wasn’t great. When Getty forgot lines, White would joke with the audience. “I thought it was cruel,” he said.
However, in hindsight, he wonders if White was distracting the audience to give Getty time to recover.
Tension Between Bea and Betty?
Rumors swirled about tension between Bea Arthur and Betty White. Zimmerman confirmed they had different work styles. “Bea, a theater actress, never broke character. Betty, more relaxed, interacted with the audience. That frustrated Bea.”
The Golden Girls Did Something Rare
Unlike many Hollywood stars, The Golden Girls actors always credited their writers. “They mentioned us in nearly every interview,” Zimmerman said. “That doesn’t happen often, and I’m forever grateful.”
No Ad-Libs Allowed
Contrary to popular belief, the cast stuck to the script. “Fans think they improvised,” Zimmerman explained. “But in Season 1, they said every word, comma, and period exactly as written.”
Zimmerman’s Legacy
Zimmerman shares more about his experiences in The Girls: From Golden to Gilmore, featuring stories about Hollywood icons like Roseanne, Lauren Graham, and Lily Tomlin.
Currently, he’s touring with Right Before I Go, a play inspired by a close friend’s suicide.
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