From Scandal to Privacy

Matt Lauer, the former Today show anchor, largely disappeared from public view after his 2017 firing amid sexual misconduct allegations. That year also marked the end of his marriage to Annette Roque. Despite the turbulence, Lauer has quietly rebuilt his personal life.

A Longtime Friendship Turns Romantic

Lauer began dating Shamin Abas, a Welsh-born PR executive, around 2019. However, their connection spans decades. They first met professionally shortly after Lauer married Roque in 1998. Sources report that their friendship grew strong over the years, providing a foundation for romance after Lauer’s divorce.

Public Appearances Are Rare

Though together for several years, Lauer and Abas maintain a low profile. They rarely appear publicly but have been spotted at select events, such as Don Lemon’s wedding in April 2024 and occasional outings in New York City. Lauer reportedly prefers this private approach after years of media scrutiny.

Age Gap and Shared History

Abas is 12 years younger than Lauer. While age gaps are not unusual in his relationships—his second wife, Roque, was nearly a decade younger—this is noted in public reporting. Despite the age difference, sources describe their relationship as supportive and stable.

Moving Forward Together

Abas has stood by Lauer through the years following his professional and personal challenges. She reportedly values their long-standing friendship and remains a consistent partner as Lauer continues to live quietly, away from the spotlight.