Theresia Fischer thought she was simply becoming “his type.” At 24, she agreed to have telescopic rods inserted into her shins, enduring months of excruciating leg lengthening to grow more than five inches taller. Her boyfriend had told her he liked “big ladies,” repeating that she was nothing without him until she believed it enough to let surgeons break and stretch her bones.
Years later, long after the relationship ended, the consequences stayed. Chronic pain, inflammation, and a leg bone that didn’t grow as planned forced her to quit a reality show and confront what she’d done. She admits she feels ashamed, not of her height, but of ever thinking she had to mutilate herself to be worthy of love. Now she dreams of one thing: having the rods removed, reclaiming her body, and finally deciding that she is enough as she is.