She now speaks not from fear, but from hard-earned clarity. Hodgkin lymphoma didn’t arrive with dramatic pain or a dramatic collapse; it crept in quietly, disguised as everyday stress, allergies, burnout. Itchy legs, relentless night sweats, unexplained fatigue, weight loss, constant colds – each one easy to dismiss, together a pattern she wishes she had questioned sooner.
Cancer stole her fertility before she ever had the chance to decide about children, and forced her into menopause while her friends were planning their futures. The physical battle was brutal, but the isolation of facing “older women’s problems” in her twenties cut just as deep. By sharing the symptoms she ignored, she is begging others not to minimize their own. Her story is not about panic, but permission: to listen to your body, to insist on answers, and to catch what she didn’t in time.