These are the signs that your cat considers you its mother and trusts you.

Cats are often seen as independent and mysterious, but their behavior reveals clear signs of attachment. If a feline frequently seeks you out, it’s no coincidence, as your cat often considers you its mother and demonstrates this with gestures reminiscent of its relationship with its biological mother.

Signs that your cat sees you as its mother

Sharing your bed or letting it snuggle up next to you is a powerful gesture: sleeping exposes the animal, and it only does so with someone it trusts. This act of vulnerability reveals emotional security; for a cat, choosing your bed is telling you that it perceives you as a role model, almost like the protective figure it had as a kitten.

Your cat following you around the house, even in mundane moments, is another strong sign. This “shadowing” stems from a desire for closeness and a need for companionship and protection. It’s not a whim: they’re seeking the warmth and routine they’ve associated with their caregiver, a bond that goes beyond mere daily interaction.

The gentle nips that leave marks without causing harm are inherited from when they were kittens and their mother groomed them. This affectionate pinch indicates comfort and trust. If your feline frequently exhibits this behavior, it’s another clue that your cat considers you their mother and feels relaxed in your presence.

How to respond to a cat’s affection

Bringing prey or toys serves as a way to offer something. In feline language, it’s a gift for the caregiver. Although some owners may find it uncomfortable, it’s an instinctive gesture that demonstrates attachment and pride in their abilities. Responding with patience, gratitude, and gentle boundaries strengthens this bond without stifling the animal’s natural behaviors.

Accepting and valuing these signals helps deepen the relationship. Likewise, providing routines, controlled affection, and personal space reinforces trust. Remember that every cat has its own style, but the gestures described, such as sharing sleep, following, nibbling, purring, or bringing ‘gifts’, are manifestations of genuine affection that deserve respect and gratitude from their human.