I sat there on that porch, watching Margaret’s certainty crumble the moment her own logic turned on itself. The same breakfast tray that made her daughter a “cherished wife” somehow turned her son into a “victim” and his wife into a parasite. Nothing about the act had changed; only the bloodline had. Her words weren’t a judgment of character, just a defense of territory.
I didn’t argue with her. I didn’t need to. The silence that followed my raised eyebrow did more than any lecture could. Because beneath all the gifts and glitter, her love was lopsided, and she knew it. That day, I realized how often our “standards” are just costumes for bias — softer on our own, harsher on theirs. And sometimes the kindest, sharpest thing you can do is smile, say, “Well, isn’t that nice,” and refuse to play along.