Sarah Palin was crushed after her 27-year role model marriage ended by email, now she’s found love again

Sarah Palin was impossible to ignore in 2008. Practically overnight, John McCain launched the little-known Alaska governor onto the national stage, introducing America to a woman with sharp elbows, quick confidence, and a folksy charm that made her a political phenomenon. But long before the headlines—and long after the campaign faded—Palin lived a life shaped by grit, family, heartbreak, and relentless resilience.

Born in Sandpoint, Idaho and raised in the rugged heart of Wasilla, Palin grew up with a competitive streak that flourished on the basketball court. She often called those years “life-changing,” and it was through sports that she met Todd Palin, the boy who would become her high-school sweetheart. In 1988, broke but determined, the two eloped at a courthouse—borrowing witnesses from the retirement home across the street.

They built a big, energetic family together—Track, Bristol, Willow, Piper, and Trig—and a home rooted deeply in Alaska’s wild rhythms. Palin worked as a sports reporter, helped run the family’s commercial fishing business, and eventually charged into politics, becoming Alaska’s youngest and first female governor in 2006.Todd, known to America as the “First Dude,” balanced oil-field shifts with raising their kids and racing in the legendary Iron Dog snowmobile competition. When McCain chose Palin as his running mate in 2008, Todd shouldered even more at home as the family faced nationwide scrutiny—including Bristol’s highly publicized teen pregnancy—under a spotlight that rarely softened.

On the outside, the Palins seemed rock solid. Behind the scenes, the story was far more complicated. In 2019, just after their 31st anniversary, Palin received an email from a lawyer informing her that Todd had filed for divorce—a moment she described as feeling like being “shot.” He cited incompatibility; she longed for counseling and a chance to rebuild. Their divorce became official in March 2020.

The aftermath was painful. Palin has said the shock still lingers. She and Todd now keep contact to the basics, coordinating mainly for their youngest son, Trig. Todd has moved on with a new partner in the Lower 48.

And Palin—who has weathered more public storms than most—found an unexpected source of steadiness in a longtime friend: former NHL star Ron Duguay. What began as a simple favor—giving her a tour of New York—grew into a relationship she describes as “safe and comfortable.” Duguay has stood by her personally and politically, even supporting her recent run for Alaska’s at-large congressional seat.

Rebuilding your life is never simple. Doing it in public, with five children and seven grandchildren watching, takes extraordinary resolve. Yet Palin has kept moving in the only direction she knows—forward. From a courthouse elopement with borrowed witnesses to a vice-presidential campaign and now a new chapter back in Wasilla, she remains a woman who has lived loudly, stumbled publicly, and continued fighting with the same iron-spined spirit that put her on the map.