Early Allegations That Shook Hollywood
Long before Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban tied the knot, allegations of infidelity surfaced. Reports trace back to the early 2000s, around the time the couple began building their 19-year marriage. These whispers threatened to shatter the fairy-tale romance that captivated Hollywood.
A woman claimed she had a steamy affair with Urban while he was falling in love with Kidman. The accusations, shocking at the time, cast a long shadow over what many saw as one of Hollywood’s strongest marriages.
Amanda Wyatt’s Explosive Claims
In 2006, 23-year-old part-time model Amanda Wyatt, 16 years Urban’s junior, went public. She claimed the affair extended right up to Urban’s wedding.
“I feel sorry for Nicole,” Wyatt said. “Keith cheated on her repeatedly with me, right up to just before they got married. He’s done it once and will probably do it again.”
Wyatt described Urban as a conflicted man — charming yet tormented, with a “huge gaping hole” inside. She recalled nights of intimacy, lavish gestures, and emotional connection, but also nights clouded by alcohol and drug use.
How It All Began
Their relationship, Wyatt claimed, began in 2004 at a Nashville bar. A casual encounter quickly turned into something deeper. She even moved into Urban’s rented home and met his parents during a holiday visit.
“He was constantly telling me how beautiful I was,” Wyatt said. “He used to tell me how much he missed me making him laugh.” Despite the closeness, Wyatt admitted she knew she was not his priority. She felt blindsided when she discovered his relationship with Kidman in a tabloid.
Behind the Scenes: Addiction and Rehab
Urban’s struggles became public months after the affair allegations. Four months into his marriage, he voluntarily entered rehab for alcohol abuse. In a statement, he expressed remorse and emphasized the importance of staying vigilant in recovery.
Despite the challenges, Kidman stood by him, earning widespread praise for her loyalty and support.

Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban attend the Men’s Singles Final at the 2023 US Open in New York City. | Source: Getty Images
A Marriage Tested
Nearly two decades later, the couple faces another turning point. TMZ reports that Kidman and Urban have been living apart since early summer. Kidman is caring for their two children, aged 14 and 17, while Urban has moved into his own Nashville residence.
Sources say the separation is not mutual. Kidman has reportedly been trying to save the marriage, though a decision about divorce has not been made.
An Enchanting Beginning
Urban recalls the night he met Kidman at the 2005 G’Day LA event. He described her as having an “otherworldly aura” and admitted he was too nervous to call her immediately. When he finally did, the connection was instant.
Their bond was tested months after their wedding when Urban entered rehab. Yet Kidman’s devotion remained steadfast. “If you want to see what love in action looks like, Nic pushed through every negative voice and chose love,” Urban said at a tribute honoring Kidman.
A Love Immortalized in Song
In 2024, Kidman revealed that her favorite song is Once in a Lifetime, which Urban wrote for her shortly after their wedding. The song symbolizes devotion and became an emblem of their life together. Their daughters, born in 2008 and 2010, strengthened the family bond.
Unique Communication and Lasting Connection
Even in the smartphone era, Kidman and Urban never texted each other. “We call. And that’s 12 years of marriage,” Kidman said in 2018. Their approach emphasized presence, clarity, and emotional honesty. Kidman explained, “I don’t want secrets between my lover and me.”
Looking Ahead
From early scandals to enduring devotion, the couple’s story reflects resilience, love, and challenges. While their separation marks a difficult chapter, it also underscores nearly two decades of shared life, milestones, and lessons about loyalty and emotional truth.