Prince Harry’s Strained Relationship with the Royal Family
Prince Harry recently opened up about the deep rift between him and the royal family. He highlighted one main obstacle to reconciliation, though insiders claim the possibility of forgiveness is fading. Here’s an overview of his sentiments and the royal family’s response.
Prince Harry’s Emotional Interview
In a raw BBC interview, Prince Harry shared the emotional toll of his ongoing legal battle over security. He expressed sorrow over not being able to show his children, Archie and Lilibet, their homeland. “I miss the UK. I love my country,” he said. But he admitted that returning to the UK seemed impossible due to the ongoing security dispute.
Security Dispute: A Barrier to Reconciliation
The prince revealed that the revocation of his security protection was more than a bureaucratic decision. It was, according to him, a tactic to control his actions. He believed the removal of security in 2020 was meant to force him back into the royal fold. “It’s a family dispute,” he said, adding that the decision was a deliberate effort to keep him “under the roof.”
Despite the tension, Prince Harry made it clear he hadn’t asked his father, King Charles III, to intervene, instead urging him to “step out of the way” and let experts handle the situation. Yet, the lack of protection put his family at risk, which he believes was a calculated move by the palace.
Public Scrutiny and Press Attacks
Prince Harry also spoke about the negative impact of the media, which he claims has fueled hatred toward him and his family. He expressed difficulty in forgiving the press for their role in the constant public scrutiny.

Prince Harry, King Charles III, and Prince William on their annual skiing holiday in 2002. | Source: Getty Images
The Path to Peace?
Despite the heavy tension, Prince Harry expressed a desire to heal the relationship, saying, “There is no point in continuing to fight anymore. Life is precious.” He added that reconciliation could begin if the security issue was addressed. However, he acknowledged that some members of the family may never forgive him for his memoir, Spare.
The Royal Family’s Cold Response
While Prince Harry’s words may have resonated with some, insiders suggest that the royal family has grown weary. A source close to Buckingham Palace said trust, not forgiveness, is the core issue. “Maybe there’s room to forgive, but they won’t forget,” one insider stated. The family’s primary concern remains trust, and many feel that public interviews have only deepened the divide.
The Impact of Prince Harry’s Memoir
Prince Harry’s memoir Spare caused significant friction within the royal family. Royal author Hugo Vickers drew a comparison between Harry and Princess Diana, noting that Harry’s actions may have irreparably damaged his relationship with the family. Repeated public revelations have left many feeling betrayed, with one insider stating, “It’s impossible to come back after that.”
King Charles III’s Health and Public Disclosure
The royal family was particularly upset by Prince Harry’s comments about King Charles III’s health. While the monarch disclosed his treatment publicly, Harry’s remarks about not knowing how long his father had left were seen as a breach of privacy. Royal author Christopher Andersen noted that this only added to the strain in their relationship, and many believe reconciliation may no longer be possible.
As tensions continue, many believe that Prince Harry’s efforts to rebuild his relationship with the royal family are unlikely to succeed. The public’s reaction has also leaned heavily in favor of the family, with many questioning Harry’s decisions. One commenter summed it up, “Harry had everything. It’s baffling to see him throw it all away.”