What Is Abrosexuality? A Look at Fluid Sexual Identity

Abrosexuality refers to a fluid sexual orientation where a person’s attractions shift over time—sometimes daily or even hourly. Unlike simply changing labels, it reflects an evolving identity that may include attraction to different genders at different times.

Writer Emma Flint shared her personal journey, explaining how her orientation fluctuated between feeling lesbian and bisexual. She only discovered the term abrosexual at age 30, finding clarity after years of feeling confused and misunderstood.

The term comes from the Greek word abro, meaning “delicate” or “graceful,” symbolizing the flexible nature of abrosexuality. It differs from pansexuality, though someone may identify with both at different times.

Awareness of abrosexuality is growing through social media, personal stories, and public support—such as Michelle Visage sharing the abrosexual pride flag on Instagram. As more people share their experiences, the visibility and understanding of this identity continue to expand.