Veronica Merritt’s life is a collision between soaring prices and deeply personal choices. Pregnant at 14 and now a mother of 12, she’s trying to stretch $1,400 in assistance across a household where the grocery bill can hit $24,000 a year. TikTok made her visible, not rich: nearly half a million followers translate into only a few hundred dollars most months, while a former partner covers utilities and the rest is a patchwork of freelance income and careful bargain hunting.
Her spending on holidays — thousands on Christmas and birthdays, often stockpiled years in advance from clearance racks and thrift stores — fuels outrage for some and heartbreak for others. Online, the debate is brutal: is she irresponsible, or just brutally honest about what it now costs to raise a big family? In that divide lies a larger, uncomfortable question: when basic food becomes a luxury, who deserves help — and who deserves blame?
