It happened years before their vows, frozen in a black-and-white photograph of two toddlers who had no idea they were standing beside their future. That picture, later turned into a painting and set next to their wedding cake with the caption “their first date,” became the symbol of everything they built: a life that began in innocence and grew into unshakable devotion.
From Idaho neighbors to Utah college sweethearts, from shy school dances to a bustling legacy of 70 descendants, their story is less about fate and more about daily, deliberate choice. Joel jokes that the secret is simple: they compromise and “do it her way,” because when “momma” is happy, everyone’s happy. Beneath the humor is a quiet reverence—a man still in awe of the girl he’s known since childhood, and a woman who never stopped choosing him back.