Autosexuality, as explored on Poosh with therapist Casey Tanner, reframes desire in a surprisingly tender way: not as vanity, but as a practice of self-connection. Finding yourself attractive in the mirror, dressing up purely for your own pleasure, even savoring your scent or the way your body moves alone in your bedroom can all be part of a healthy erotic relationship with yourself. Far from replacing partners, it can make intimacy richer by grounding it in real self-worth instead of insecurity.
That nuance is easy to miss in a culture that loves to shame confidence, especially in women like Kourtney Kardashian Barker, whose every gesture is dissected as either “too much” or “not enough.” From provocative Halloween skeletons to unapologetic PDA with Travis Barker, she keeps choosing her own script. Whether the Poosh piece is a confession, a conversation-starter, or clever branding, it taps a nerve: how much of our desire are we finally allowed to keep for ourselves?