The Pope’s Past: Insights from Family and Acquaintances
Pope Francis’ passing on April 21, 2025, left a lasting impact on the world. As the Catholic Church’s 266th pontiff, he was known for his humility, compassion, and commitment to marginalized communities. His death has sparked reflections on his legacy, but it also brought attention to his life before becoming pope, particularly the woman romantically linked to him.
María Elena Bergoglio’s Account: Pope’s Reluctance to Become Pope
Pope Francis’ younger sister, María Elena Bergoglio, shared insights into her brother’s life before his papacy. She revealed in an interview that he never dreamed of leading the Catholic Church. They would joke about it, with him responding, “No, please no.” Despite his reluctance, she viewed his papacy as “a blessing from God” and admired how his first public appearance as Pope reflected his true nature.
Amalia Damonte during an interview on March 15, 2013 | Source: YouTube/TheTelegraph
Amalia Damonte: A Childhood Connection
Amalia Damonte, a childhood acquaintance from Buenos Aires, also provided a glimpse into Pope Francis’ early years. In a 2013 interview, Damonte recalled a statement from Pope Francis: “If I can’t marry you, I’ll become a priest.” She believed that if he hadn’t left his position at the church, he might have officiated her wedding.
Childhood Affections and Family Reactions
At the age of 12, Damonte was the object of Pope Francis’ affections. He even left her a handwritten note, drawing a white house with a red roof, saying, “This is what I’ll buy when we marry.” While Damonte viewed this as a childish gesture, her parents reacted strongly. Her father scolded her, and her mother confronted her about the letter. From then on, her parents took measures to keep them apart.
A Shared Humble Beginning
Years passed, and Damonte moved away, married, and raised a family. Yet, she continued to follow Pope Francis’ rise in the church. Despite media speculating about a possible reunion, she dismissed the idea. She saw herself as part of his past, a chapter tied to their humble beginnings.
A Surprising Papacy
When Pope Francis was named the Pope, Damonte was shocked. “I froze in front of the television. I couldn’t believe Jorge was the Pope,” she said. She regarded him as a wonderful person, and though she never expected this turn in his life, she followed his journey from afar.
Health Struggles and Critical Condition
By the time Pope Francis turned 88, he had faced serious health challenges. After suffering breathing difficulties, he was admitted to Rome’s Gemelli Hospital in February 2025. Diagnosed with double pneumonia, he remained in critical condition. Doctors noted his fragile state, but despite his health struggles, Pope Francis continued to express gratitude for the support he received worldwide.
Pope Francis’ Burial Wishes
In addition to his health struggles, Pope Francis had quietly prepared for his final days. Unlike his predecessors, who were buried in the Vatican, Pope Francis requested to be interred at Rome’s Basilica of St. Mary Major. This decision marked a rare departure from tradition. He had discussed the plans with Archbishop Diego Giovanni Ravelli, indicating his desire for simplicity in his burial. The basilica holds personal significance for him, and he often visited it when in Rome.
