There comes a moment when you realize you’re the only one still fighting for the relationship. Their “I love you” disappears, replaced by indifference, excuses, and cold distance. They stop asking about your day, stop caring if you’re hurting, and somehow every problem becomes your fault. You feel more alone next to them than you ever did on your own, and conversations that once flowed now die in awkward silence.
You notice they’re always “busy,” always elsewhere, always planning a life that doesn’t seem to include you. Instead of support, you get criticism. Instead of comfort, you get blame. Your self-worth starts to crumble under the weight of their neglect and harsh words. That’s not love—it’s slow destruction. Walking away may terrify you, but staying will quietly break you. You deserve someone who chooses you, not someone who’s already gone.